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Why is it okay for a guy to be a player,but not as okay for a girl?
It just doesn't make sense,we're all human,we're all made the same way,we all have the same emotions.Then why the immediate assumption that a girl player is a slut/bitch/slut/disgrace/slut?Or do we all just instantly associate "playing" with sex?
Education time:A player does not have to be sexually involved with his/her playee.A player plays for the thrill of,well,playing.It's just so annoying that some people are so close-minded that anyone(ESPECIALLY GIRLS) who's a player,is cheap and bad company.
STUPID.